Pregnant for another man. Should he take her back?

heartbreakWhat would you do if your fiancee came home to tell you that she was pregnant by some other man? I was talking to my Aunt yesterday and she told me about a story she heard on the radio. Apparently a man had called in to seek advice. He said he was/is engaged to this lady.

He, not her, had requested that they abstain from sex till after they are legally married. After almost two years into the deal to abstain, with a few months to their wedding, she comes home to tell him she is pregnant. The pregnancy obviously does not belong to him since they were not bumping and grinding. lol.

The man is devastated and doesn’t know what to do. So What do you think the man in this situation should do and who is to blame?

Toni Payne

Author: Toni Payne

Toni Payne is a creative writer, poet, voiceover artist, media personality and entrepreneur. She enjoys writing inspirational quotes, short stories, and poetry about various topics from romance to self-love. She also does voiceover readings of short stories and flash fiction on her podcast and writes travel, exotic cars and beauty lifestyle articles. At her leisure, she writes musings about pop culture, entertainment, relationships and more.

13 thoughts

  1. Hell no. They can never be happy. Men do not forgive like women so he would resent her and the baby. She should have moved on right away

  2. I would not take her back. She cheated, that is enough to end the relationship. except she is Rihanna, he should move on

  3. We can completely ignore Aderenle’s comment it makes no sense, she cheated and she’s in the wrong the man has every right to not forgive her; you reap what you sow. Never go back to someone who cheats on you, they do it once and they’ll do it again. Get rid of them as soon as possible because they’re holding you back in life and from finding a person who’s worth your time and respect.

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